The so-called 鈥淛anuary Gym Rush鈥� is a metaphor for the modern-day New Year鱿鱼视频app resolutions exercise. Intentions to get fit, diet and reduce our debt, among other goals, frequently dissolve when the rubber hits the road. Subsequently, many people suffer a crushing sense of defeat. Rather than go back to the drawing board, they resolve never again to make New Year鱿鱼视频app resolutions, which pretty-much guarantees they will be unfit, overweight and debt-ridden at this same time next year.
New Year鱿鱼视频app resolutions are not the problem. It is good for us to be healthy, happy, productive and the best we can be; we know what we need to do to get there.
Rather, our resolutions fall flat because we fail to do two things: acknowledge, and rely on, the real source of our strength; and connect our goals to a wider context.
It鱿鱼视频app ironic that a 4,000-year-old Babylonian practice, which historians believe is the origin of New Year鱿鱼视频app resolutions, focused on the gods of the day. The Babylonian New Year began in March with the planting of crops, celebrated by the religious festival Atiku. During the festival, people promised the gods they would pay their debts and return borrowed items. The gods would bless those who fulfilled their promises or shun those who failed to do so.
The ancient Romans took on the Babylonian practice, changing the date of New Year to Jan. 1 in honour of the god Janus. The Romans offered sacrifices to Janus, vowing to behave well in the year ahead.
God has been taken out of today鱿鱼视频app resolution-making exercise. Instead of seeking God鱿鱼视频app will for our lives 鈥� discerning the aspects of our character that need transformation, asking Him what He wants us to accomplish in the year to com, and vowing to implement His plan 鈥� we focus only on what we want.
New Year鱿鱼视频app resolutions typically revolve around self-improvement. While that, in itself, is not a bad thing, the greater question of 鈥渨hy鈥� is often missing. Being clear on the 鈥渨hy鈥� of what we鈥檙e doing is also a source of our strength.
Why is it important to exercise? Why must we eat nutritious foods? Why do we need to eliminate our debts and save money?
There can be numerous answers to these and other questions, many of which boil down to the fact that if we are healthy, strong and financially sound, we are in a better position to help others, contribute positively to society and fulfil God鱿鱼视频app plan for our lives.
Basing our goals on what pleases God, as discerned through Scripture and prayer, and calling upon Him to give us the strength, resolve and discipline to achieve these goals will ensure our success throughout the year.
Indeed, Scripture is full of references to our dependence on God. In his letters, St. Paul repeatedly stresses the importance of perseverance and its positive outcomes.
Yet, character development is sadly lacking in the list of most peoples鈥� resolutions today.
In her Dec. 20 Farmer鱿鱼视频app Almanac article, digital editor Catherine Boeckmann provides a fascinating look at how New Year鱿鱼视频app resolutions have changed over the decades. She lists the 10 most popular resolutions made in 1947 according to a Gallup poll. The top three were: 鈥淚mprove my disposition, be more understanding, control my temper; Improve my character, live a better life; Stop smoking, smoke less.鈥� Number six was 鈥淏e more religious, go to church more often,鈥� while the last one was to lose (or gain) weight.
Fast forward to today, when the top three are: 鈥淟ose weight; Get organized; Spend less, save more.鈥� The last one is: 鈥淪pend more time with family.鈥� There is no mention of religion or God.
When the two lists are put side-by-side, its glaringly obvious today鱿鱼视频app New Year鱿鱼视频app resolutions are largely self-centred, individualistic wish-lists that aim to please ourselves using our own power to make things happen.
When we map out our goals for the year, let us put our relationship with God and others at the forefront. Fr. Edward Looney鱿鱼视频app 10 Simple Spiritual Resolutions for the New Year is a great start to grounding ourselves in the grace we need to make 鈥� and keep 鈥� resolutions that benefit ourselves and those around us.
(Majtenyi is a public relations officer specializing in research at an Ontario university.)