One of the lecturers, Fr. John Roberts, who was a prison chaplain at the Ontario Correctional Institute, instilled in us a fundamental principle: 鈥淪how up and be consistent. It may be just another visit for you, but for the person you are with it may be the moment they have been waiting for all week.鈥�
This month marks 15 years since I started my downtown ministry and, if nothing else, over these years I have tried to be consistent. I have gone there the same night every week, to the same area and at the same time. As one lady said, 鈥淚t must be Thursday, I expected to see you.鈥�
In the Church on the Street, it seemed that spring had finally dared to awaken from her long winter slumber and the street was again filled with the semblance of warmth. Blessings seemed to be the order of the day and I was surprised as one lady who had often seen me but who had basically ignored me, came up to me. 鈥淲ill you pray for me please?鈥� she asked quietly, and then stood with head bowed awaiting benediction. Then she was off. No more conversation, just a 鈥渢hank you鈥� and off she went.
Not long after, as darkness settled in, I was walking up the street when I heard footsteps behind. Although I am seldom afraid downtown, footsteps behind me always make me a little tense and so I turned to see who was following. At that moment a young man passed and upon noticing my clerical collar stopped to ask, 鈥淲ould you give me a blessing tonight?鈥� After asking his name and if there was something specific he would like me to pray for, he also bowed his head awaiting benediction.
Upon completion of the blessing he walked up the road with me and as he fumbled in his pocket he said, 鈥淭hank you so much, let me give you something for that.鈥�
鈥淣o, really,鈥� I said, 鈥淚 don鈥檛 accept money for blessings.鈥�
鈥淣o, I insist,鈥� he said as he pulled from his pocket a plastic bag filled with crack cocaine. 鈥淭his stuff is gold, pastor, pure gold.鈥�
鈥淗onestly, it鱿鱼视频app very kind of you, but I really don鈥檛 want any,鈥� I said distancing myself from him. 鈥淚t was a blessing I gave you, not a grace before meals.鈥�
Taking the hint, he took off in the other direction shouting back at me, 鈥渂ut it鱿鱼视频app pure gold, pastor, pure gold.鈥�
It was much later that evening when I remembered the wisdom of consistency. Coming towards me were two ladies, one hobbling as she approached bent over her walker and looking towards the ground. She paused for a moment as she passed and painfully turned her head upwards.
鈥淏etty,鈥� I exclaimed. 鈥淚t鱿鱼视频app been years. How are you?鈥�
鈥淗i Deacon Robert,鈥� she said. 鈥淚 am just coming from my support group. I am off the drugs now. This is my sponsor. How long has it been? It must be about nine years since we last met. Did you ever think you would see me clean?鈥�
I started to laugh and reminded her of the last time we met. I had been in a laneway with one of the women that I was going to drive home, to make sure she got off the street safely that night. The woman had gone into the side door of a crack house to 鈥減ick up her backpack鈥� as she said.
Just at that point, out of the same building came Betty and as she saw me, she said, 鈥淲hat are you doing here? It鱿鱼视频app not safe. I鈥檒l stay with you until she comes back to make sure you are OK.鈥�
I told her how relieved I was, since the last thing I wanted was for a police car to come up and ask what I was doing there, and my only reply could have been, 鈥淚 am waiting for a girl.鈥�
After a few more reminiscences Betty and I embraced, and off she went with her friend to catch the bus home.
On this evening of benedictions, I felt the Lord had blessed both of us as He guided my friend to the path of sobriety, and our footsteps to meet on this cool, dark Thursday evening.
(Kinghorn is a deacon of the Archdiocese of Toronto: robert.kinghorn@ekinghorn.com)