The ninth annual on Oct. 18 won鈥檛 magically change that statistic, but it sends a message, said Catholic Family 鱿鱼视频app violence against women program manager Sherene McFarlane.
Talking about abuse in public and in church, praying for its victims and for healing, is the exact opposite of 鈥渕essages that have been kind of ingrained,鈥� McFarlane told The Catholic Register. Where women once learned that their experience of abuse was shameful, or at the very least private, the annual Mass represents the Church inviting an honest and public discussion.
鈥淭he message is being changed,鈥� McFarlane said. 鈥淲omen are getting the sense that they can speak up and they can get out of their abusive situations.鈥�
It鱿鱼视频app all very well for rich, powerful and famous movie stars to campaign publicly in the #MeToo movement, but #MeToo is a whole different proposition for the people Catholic Family 鱿鱼视频app typically serve, said McFarlane.
鈥淲e think about some of our immigrant women, who have experienced rape or domestic violence in their home country,鈥� she said. 鈥淭hey鈥檙e coming here and they have no resources. They鈥檙e still linked with their husband who is still abusive. These are the stories that we hear on a regular basis.鈥�
McFarlane admits that media attention on Bill Cosby鱿鱼视频app conviction for drugging and raping a young woman, or the allegations against Hollywood mega-producer Harvey Weinstein, drives public discussion. But the connection between these personalities and the poor and working-class women who clean offices, care for other people鱿鱼视频app children, wait tables and cook is difficult to see.
鈥淚f media talked about the everyday struggles that we see鈥�.鈥� McFarlane leaves the rest of that sentence hanging. In meetings of Catholic Family 鱿鱼视频app staff, the social workers and support staff were skeptical about #MeToo鱿鱼视频app benefit for their clients.
鈥淚t鱿鱼视频app like, here comes another wave. It鱿鱼视频app going to build this huge tidal wave and then it鱿鱼视频app going to die. Then we鈥檙e still going to be here, holding.鈥�
In many immigrant communities there鱿鱼视频app a cost to speaking about abuse. 鈥淵ou鈥檙e going to bring backlash to yourself if you speak up,鈥� McFarlane said. 鈥淭here鱿鱼视频app a differential in terms of socio-economic status.鈥�
Whether it鱿鱼视频app physical or verbal, so much of abuse is about the exercise of power, said Catholic Family 鱿鱼视频app of Toronto executive director Denis Costello.
鈥淎buse is often used by individuals from broken homes themselves, who fear that their partner will leave them,鈥� Costello wrote in an email. 鈥淪o, they seek power and control over the other by abuse 鈥� often verbal and emotional, and also by physical abuse.鈥�
This year鱿鱼视频app Mass to End Woman Abuse is co-sponsored by St. Edward the Confessor Catholic Church at 75 Churchill Ave., North York, where it will get underway at 7 p.m., followed by a reception co-hosted by the and.
鈥� Every six days a woman in Canada is killed by her husband, boyfriend or common-law partner.
鈥� Every night about 3,500 women, accompanied by nearly 3,000 children, sleep in shelters for abused women. Another 300 are turned away on any given night.
鈥� Aboriginal women are killed at six times the rate of non-Aboriginal women.
鈥� Twenty-one per cent of abused women were assaulted during pregnancy.
鈥� Coast-to-coast, violence against women results in over 40,000 arrests per year 鈥� about 12 per cent of all violent crime
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