Every day she thanks God for the life she has, one that wouldn鈥檛 have even begun if her mother, just 16 at the time, had decided to abort her 17 years ago. In choosing life, her mother set Dominique on a path that led to her adoption into a home that has made her the person she is today.
Now, Dominique gets to be a voice for those who are voiceless.
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The Cambridge, Ont., teen shared her story with 500 educators, family and friends at the annual Fr. Patrick Fogarty Awards Dinner in October. She was representing 160 of her fellow students who were being honoured as the 2016 Student Representative in their school board districts.
The room was captivated as she told them how she was one of 2,000 babies that are being adopted in Canada each year. In Canada alone, there are over 30,000 children waiting to be adopted into families, but many of these children wait in orphanages and foster care systems until they 鈥渁ge out鈥� at the age of 19.
Dominique was one of the lucky ones.
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Since she was about two years old, her adoptive parents, Zel and Mario Sousa, told her stories about her adoption. She has home movies of her parents sitting her down with a stack of picture books that explained her adoption as a gift of life.
鈥淎 life is a life and that鱿鱼视频app part of our Catholic upbringing,鈥� said Zel. 鈥淚t鱿鱼视频app all about had her birth mom not chosen to give birth to her, it would鈥檝e been a sadder place without her.鈥�
The decision was not an easy one. Dominique鱿鱼视频app biological mother knew her own mother had given up her first child for adoption when she was 17 years old. She saw how much it hurt her not to see that baby every again.
鈥淪he could鈥檝e easily chosen to have an abortion so that her mom would have never found out that she was pregnant,鈥� said Dominique.
Dominique was adopted at 11 months old by Zel and Mario in September 2000.
At first, Zel and Mario were hesitant to make it an open adoption, which allows for information sharing and controlled access in a contract between the biological and adoptive parents.
鈥淚 know my parents had reservations about this like, 鈥榃hy are you going to bother? She鱿鱼视频app
yours,鈥� 鈥� said Zel. 鈥淭he thing is, is that somebody else is going to tell them that and we don鈥檛 have any control over that鈥�. And if I don鈥檛 build that rapport with them on honesty and transparency, that鱿鱼视频app not going to get me anywhere in life.鈥�
Zel said allowing Dominique to have a relationship with her biological mother has been the best decision they鈥檝e made for her.
Now, Zel and Dominique attend workshops at the Kitchener Family & Children 鱿鱼视频app to share their open adoption stories to other hopeful adoptive parents.
鈥淚 think there鱿鱼视频app really great benefits in hearing Dominique鱿鱼视频app story because she is experiencing it first-hand,鈥� said Zel.
Dominique said she wants people to know that her adoption is a vital part of who she is as a person.
鈥淚 feel like if I didn鈥檛 have that relationship (with my birth mother), I wouldn鈥檛 be as adamantly pro-life as I am right now,鈥� she said. 鈥淪he did a lot for me by giving birth to me and facing her mom鈥�. It鱿鱼视频app a benefit to know where you are from. You have the answers to all these questions and you don鈥檛 sit there wondering.鈥�
Dominique firmly believes that to be a pro-lifer, she has to learn everything she can.
鈥淚鈥檝e gone to a lot of conferences to try to get more knowledge on it because I can鈥檛 be pro-life without understanding what it really means to be pro-life,鈥� she said.
One of the youth conferences that has struck her most was one she attended in November 2015 in Hamilton.
鈥淚 really like that one because it explained to us the impact of euthanasia laws in other countries,鈥� said Dominique. 鈥淭hat really resonated with me because my grandpa had dementia and my grandmother had Alzheimer鱿鱼视频app disease.鈥�
Dominique has many fond memories of her grandparents taking her out for coffee dates, shopping trips, and even vacation trips to Portugal.
Three of her four grandparents have passed away, but Dominique cherished the moments she had with them.
鈥淭hey鈥檝e always been the most special people,鈥� she said. 鈥淭hey鈥檝e done so much for me and have never expected anything from me in return except for respect.鈥�
She and her younger brother, Xander (who is also adopted), would visit their grandmother at St. Andrew鱿鱼视频app Terrace nursing home every week. She even started volunteering there every Saturday, a job she continued even after her grandmother passed away.
She is on her way to finish her Grade 12 year at Monsignor Doyle Catholic Secondary School in Cambridge and hopes to study geriatric care at Conestoga College.
鈥淥ne of the most important things that you have to remember is that if you want to understand someone, you have to try and walk in their shoes,鈥� said Dominique. 鈥淵ou have to try to understand people in order to understand the value of human life.鈥�