Discerning whether God is calling you to marriage, to the priesthood or to consecrated life is an example, said Gallagher, a member of the Oblates of the Virgin Mary (OVM) and author of seven books on the teachings of St. Ignatius of Loyola and the life of the OVM founder Venerable Bruno Lanteri.
Another example might be discerning among choices of careers, such as medicine where 鈥渢he moral factor鈥� leaves the person 鈥渇ree to observe either choice鈥� and where St. Ignatius鈥� process might be helpful, he said.
St. Ignatius discovered the process of spiritual discernment after a cannon ball struck his legs, breaking one of them, forcing him to rest during his recovery. During this time, he spent hours plotting how he might gain the affections of a woman who was likely too highborn for him to ever marry. He also began reading the lives of the saints, and asked himself, 鈥淲hat if I should do as St. Francis did? What if I should do as St. Dominic did?鈥� Gallagher said.
Ignatius noticed after spending hours thinking of how to 鈥済ain the unattainable woman鈥� his heart 鈥渞emained dry and discontented,鈥� the priest said. But when he thought of the lives of the saints, his heart remained 鈥渉appy and content.鈥�
The realization God might be leading him to choose a life of faith led Ignatius to confession and conversion and to lead a life of holiness based on the context of discerning spirits, Gallagher said.
Ignatius believed in order for discernment to be effective, you 鈥渉ave to have a solid foundation,鈥� he said. Gallagher offered a contemporary reading of the foundation, which included understanding 鈥淕od created us out of love so that we might praise and reverence His infinite love and goodness, and by dedicating our lives to His service might enter an eternity of joyful communion with Him.鈥�
Anything in our lives that helps towards this purpose we 鈥渟hould appreciate and use鈥� but anything that detracts should be let go, Ignatius said. In other words, the foundation is the disposition of heart to be 鈥渃ompletely available to God,鈥� and 鈥渁n openness to whatever God wills,鈥� Gallagher said. 鈥淲ithout this disposition we are not ready to try.鈥�
The means to obtaining the grace of openness to God鱿鱼视频app will include frequent reception of the Holy Eucharist, poring over sacred Scripture, cultivating silence and spiritual direction, he said.
鈥淚t is not possible to discern without prayer,鈥� the priest said. 鈥淭he closer you get to Jesus, the more our hearts are going to be ready to choose in the same way.鈥�
Going on a retreat could be helpful to experience silence and freedom from distractions, he said.
鈥淕od never calls upon us to be stuck in the spiritual life,鈥� he said. Sometimes people feel like a 鈥渉amster spinning鈥� in a wheel, and 鈥渋f we feel like that, God isn鈥檛 calling us to that.鈥�
Gallagher stressed we all are called to be saints, no matter whether married, leading a celibate single life, in the priesthood or in various forms of consecrated life.
鈥淪ay 鈥榊es!鈥� to the call to be holy,鈥� he said.
As for discerning between married life or celibacy for the sake of God鱿鱼视频app Kingdom, Gallagher pointed out the Church teaches 鈥渢he vocation to marriage is written into the very nature of man and woman.鈥�
All are called to the 鈥渟pousal gift of self,鈥� that in marriage is the source of new life, physical life. However, the spousal gift expressed in consecrated life or the priesthood can also lead to 鈥渟piritual new life,鈥� he said.
鈥淐elibacy is a supernatural call beyond our nature,鈥� he said. It is not uncommon for one to have 鈥渢he call to marriage and spousal life and at the same time a call to renounce them for the sake of God and His Kingdom.鈥�